Learn Speak Teach Episode #89 with Michael Bungay Stanier.

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Our success and happiness depend greatly on our working relationships. It’s common for these relationships to encounter rough patches, but the good news is that every working relationship has the potential to become better. So, how do we build the best possible relationship? Find out in this episode with Michael Bungay Stanier.

Michael Bungay Stanier is a renowned author, keynote speaker, and mentor, often recognized for ‘The Coaching Habit,’ which has sold over one million copies. He is the transformative force behind MBS.works, and his expertise lies in transforming complex ideas into practical, accessible knowledge, enabling individuals to unlock their own greatness.

In this engaging conversation, we discuss Michael’s new book, How to Work with Almost Anyone. He unveils the key concepts that form the foundation of his book – The Best Possible Relationships (BPR) and The Keystone Conversation.

Discover the two levels of behavior change and learn about the habits Michael has adopted to prepare for his future self. Get inspired by Michael’s ambitious goal and mission of infecting a billion people with a ‘possibility virus.’

Find out why he incorporated a special section in his book for friends and peers to discuss their Best Possible Relationships. Additionally, we explore the fascinating behind-the-scenes story of how Michael brought together brilliant minds to discuss their Best Possible Relationships in the book.

Tune in for amazing insights!

During this episode, you will learn about:

[02:30] Michael Bungay Stanier’s relationship with Mark Bowden

[05:00] Who is Michael Bungay Stanier?

[05:47] Michael’s book, How to Work with Almost Anyone

[09:32] The Best Possible Relationships (BPR)

[10:49] The Keystone Conversation

[11:37] An example of a Keystone Conversation

[13:40] How to navigate the challenge of having a Keystone Conversation

[18:22] True success is a behavior change

[19:20] The 2 levels of behavior change

[22:49] What habits has Michael adopted to prepare for his future self?

[27:26] Michael’s goal and mission: Infecting a billion people with a ‘possibility virus’

[34:39] Why Michael incorporated a section in his book for friends and peers to discuss their Best Possible Relationships (BPR)

[38:44] Nick Gray’s book, The 2-Hour Cocktail Party

[40:25] LST Episode #62 w/ Nick Gray: https://realbusinessconnections.com/episode/nickgray/

[42:47] How did he bring together brilliant minds to discuss their BPR in his audiobook?

[48:36] Integration assignment

[50:04] Download the five questions for building the best possible relationship: https://bestpossiblerelationship.com/

[51:03] Rapid Fire Round

[56:44] How to connect and support Michael Bungay Stanier

Website: https://www.mbs.works/

Key Takeaways:

Our success and happiness depend so much on our working relationships. [06:43]
Every working relationship goes off the rails at some stage. [08:09]
Every working relationship has the potential to be better. [10:10]
Success is changing behavior. [17:42]
“You can’t control your circumstances, but you have a choice as to how you react to your circumstances.” ~Michael Bungay Stanier [28:40]
“Between stimulus and response is freedom.” ~Viktor E. Frankl [28:46]